Thank you for this Jeanie - I so appreciate your vulnerability, humour and constant commitment to GROW! I really FEEL you! And I struggle with the same things. HUGEly apt for me right now too.
I totally did the same thing a few days ago. I bought some chocolate desserts for my friend and she told me she is trying to avoid chocolate. She was trying to avoid chocolate a month ago, but was still eating it. So when she told me about not wanting to eat chocolate I said, oh are you doing that now, and I regretted it as soon as I said it. She has the right to start as many times as she wants and as her friend I should have been supportive instead of snarky. Plus, I should be happy because I get all the chocolate! I did wind up apologizing for it and I got chocolate.
Thank you for this Jeanie - I so appreciate your vulnerability, humour and constant commitment to GROW! I really FEEL you! And I struggle with the same things. HUGEly apt for me right now too.
Thank you for your encouragement KB! I appreciate your humility in admitting your similar struggles!
I totally did the same thing a few days ago. I bought some chocolate desserts for my friend and she told me she is trying to avoid chocolate. She was trying to avoid chocolate a month ago, but was still eating it. So when she told me about not wanting to eat chocolate I said, oh are you doing that now, and I regretted it as soon as I said it. She has the right to start as many times as she wants and as her friend I should have been supportive instead of snarky. Plus, I should be happy because I get all the chocolate! I did wind up apologizing for it and I got chocolate.
I love your self awareness Kate. Plus, that sounds like a win-win to me!